July 24, 2014 at 6:19 pm | Breakups | No comment
Love is an awesome feeling shared by two people. However this romantic feeling brings with it some ups and downs that if not carefully handled, can lead to a break up.
Women are very different from men. This means that the couple needs to spend some time to study and discover what the other partner’s needs are. When a couple is faced with a break up, it of course takes a lot to come to terms with the situation.
However, true love always finds its way home. If you two are truly meant to be, then you shall eventually end up together and rekindle the love. When it comes to this, you need to learn tips on how to repair a broken relationship as you realize the magic of making up.
1. Leave the Past Where it Belongs
During the time you spent apart, you probably realized just how difficult it is to live without the other person. For true love, the second chance comes stronger than the first time.
If this is to be then you definitely have to forgive and forget your partner’s past mistakes. Harboring contempt and anger towards them will make you a bitter person and poison your relationship.
Reminding them over and over of their mistakes hinders them from moving forward. Let go of the past, they probably have learned their lesson and regret every single one of them. Let go and let him love you like you deserve.
2. Identify the Problem Areas
Truth of the matter is that your relationship got shaken the first time due to one or several problems. If you want to give your love a good survival chance then you have to deal with the root cause of the problem head on.
Identify the problem and aim at resolving the issues together as a couple. This calls for a lot of sacrifice; compromise, unselfishness and understanding. If you find yourself going round in circles, you can invite a third party to give unbiased advice.
It would also be a good idea to find ways to prevent the problem from arising in the future. This puts a solid seal of security over your rekindled relationship hence making it even better.
3. Give the Relationship 100%; Meet your Partner Half Way
The beauty of rekindled love is the security and comfort derived from knowing that it flew away and still found its way back to you.
This means that your partner was free to look around elsewhere but still chose you; all over again. You need to make it last this time and the best way to do that is to give it 100%. Meet your partner half way.
Play your part and your partner will too. A common mistake individuals make is to only give half and expect their partners to give their all.
The magic of making up is only realized when you apply these three tips to your rekindled love life. Take note of all the mistakes that sabotaged your love and collectively work on preventing them as a couple.
Remember, love is a two person game. As long as you are both willingly to make it work, then it will be stronger than ever.